Birth Order Traits – First, Middle, Last Child and Only Child

Do you know the Birth Order influence the Traits of your child?

Through this article, you will know the Birth Order Traits in your child, whether she is your only child, first child, middle child, or last child.

The only child in family

Positive: the only one child in family is the world leader. They focus on their tasks; they usually are organized people, really careful and can be relied on. They focus on fact, idea, and detail and they are really comfortable with responsibility.

Negative: the character that is hard to be dealt with. They are difficult to forgive, they are also very demanding, they don’t like to admit if they are wrong and they are not easy to be criticized. They are so sensitive and their feeling easily hurts.

The first child

Positive: the natural leader and they work hard. Generally they will become politician, spoke person, and the company leader. They feel having right and it makes them superior. It is groped into 2 types: the obedient leader and the aggressive leader. Both of them hold control, only the method that is different. The first child is people who are selective, detailed, on time, organized, and competent. They want to see things done right the first time. They don’t like surprises.

Weakness: they are moody and not sensitive. They can be so intimidating mainly forcing people too hard, or refusing NO answer. It seems that they know everything and sometimes weak in delegating task because they are difficult to believe others like they are difficult to believe in themselves. They are also bossy and perfectionist.

The middle child

Positive: they are so flexible, they like to please others, and they hate confrontation. Their basic need is making their life run well and their motto is peace at any price. They are calm and friendly, they are also down to earth and good listener. They can see problem from two sides and want to please all people. That makes them good mediators and negotiators.

Negative: they are not too ambitious but they want everybody likes them. They are hard to decide the limit. It seems that they are dependent. They are not capable in deciding something because they are afraid of hurting someone’s feeling. They blame themselves when they are failed.

The last child

Positive: Last-borns are the world’s cheerleaders. They can understand others and like to entertain and chat. They are easy to make friends and they are also open. They are enthusiast if there are people surround them and they are not afraid of taking risk.

Negative: they are easy to get bored. They are hard to concentrate and afraid of being rejected. When the situation is unpleasant, they easily move. It seems that they are self centered. Sometimes they are not realistic in interaction because they always expect pleasure – and of course, such relationships simply do not last.

After reading this article, hopefully it can clear us about the Birth Order Traits in child, so that we, as parents, can act rightfully in order to increase her positive potency and to reduce her negative tendency (weaknesses).

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